High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

Marriage Isn’t About Happiness: Intimacy, Submission, and the Mystery of Oneness

Chelsey Holm Season 1 Episode 21

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Marriage isn’t about your happiness—it’s about your holiness.

In this soul-deep episode, Chelsey walks through Ephesians 5 and unpacks the profound mystery of marriage: a reflection of Christ and the Church. This is more than submission, more than sex, and more than “doing your part.” It’s a Spirit-filled, sanctifying journey toward oneness, healing, and kingdom purpose.

You’ll hear:

  • Why biblical submission creates space for your husband to rise
  • How intimacy is a spiritual purification process—not just a physical act
  • The enemy’s distortion of sex vs. God’s design for soul-level oneness
  • What it looks like to stop living lukewarm and start building God’s kingdom through your marriage
  • How to shift from low-level problem-solving to high-level living

If you’ve been stuck focusing on what’s not working, this episode will show you how to shift your perspective and posture into alignment with God’s original design.

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I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

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2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)
10+ years coaching experience
NASM-certified in Personal Training and Nutrition
Mom of 5, Army wife 16 years

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