High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm
Welcome to High Level Wife Podcast, where we reclaim our true identity as women, wives, and daughters of God. Hosted by Chelsey Holm, this podcast is all about living boldly, breaking free from limiting beliefs, and stepping into your God-given purpose.
Join Chelsey for authentic conversations on marriage, faith, and personal transformation. With real, unfiltered insights, powerful interviews, and actionable wisdom, this podcast will help you rise above the status quo and embrace the life God has uniquely designed for you.
If you're ready to shed the old, embrace your true calling, and walk confidently in the life and marriage you've always dreamed of—this is the space for you. Tune in and get empowered to live fully, authentically, and on purpose, according to God’s plan.
Episodes
288 episodes
See the Heart of Your Husband!
I was co-leading a mediation session between a hurting Christian couple last week, and the Spirit kept urging me to see this husband's lonely heart, to see this wife's hurting heart, and to help them see each other for the first time as 2 broke...
Generational Impact: How Your Marriage is Hurting or Helping Your Kids
Did you know that 66-75% of young adults raised in the faith, walk away from the faith in their years following leaving the nest? Rather than the allure of being exposed to all new stuff they didn't previously have access to and now they do, mi...
You Might Have the Wrong Heart Posture in Obedience if....
How you obey the Father today, informs how you submit within your own marriage. You will not flourish in marriage God's way until you learn obedience from the right heart posture to God first. Chelsey dives into Israel's obedience t...
Money Conflict in Marriage: The Key to Oneness in Finances
Vows say "for richer, for poorer" but when 70% of couples argue about finances... and money is consistently ranked as one of the leading sources of conflict in marriage- the reality is radically different from the original intent. Financial dis...
3 Rules for Communication: A Must in High Level Marriages!
While implementing these rules for communication won't address the root issues of your marriage, it WILL help you move faster in the SAME direction towards healing and oneness. In this episode, Chelsey shares 3 rules she and Zach im...
You Remain Stuck in Your Marriage Because of This
Galatians 1:6-9 reveals the highly likely reason for where you are in marriage today: Anything that is Jesus+this or Jesus-that is a false gospel that keeps you stuck, frustrated, in conflict and not walking free. Dive into the one,...
This is What a Passive Husband Looks Like
A passive husband doesn't look weak; he actually looks like this...
God Wants To Minister to Your Heart As His Daughter Too
Listen to the recap of 7 ways God ministered to Chelsey's heart during a recent time of feeling a little downtrodden and be encouraged too! God is SO good!
Intimacy + Desire Food Metaphors + FUN | Taste + See the Goodness PART 5!
Has your marriage become too serious? And that has overflowed to the bedroom? It's time to bring back the fun, laughter, excitement, and intimacy God's way! Chelsey shares some ways to keep it light and fun as you delight in one ano...
Letting Go of Hurts, Hang-Ups + Offenses in Your Marriage
I thought this would be the shortest episode ever because I wanted to go all Truth, no love of: "If you refuse to forgive others, your Father in heaven will not forgive you." And then the Holy Spirit gently nudged me (punched me in the face) an...
When You Understand Prayer, It Is Always Your FIRST Resort
How often do you run back to the Lors in times of trouble, but quickly grow complacent in times of ease? That used to be me too! Our marriage breaking was what made me go running back to the Lord and to stay rooted in Him ALWAYS fro...
God is SO Good! Good + Perfect Gift-Giver! Have You Met Him Yet?
Take a peek into my morning car ride convo with my youngest, Bo, about the goodness of God, how He is the Giver of good and perfect gifts, and how we can ask Him for things.If you think God is a genie or a distant dad- you need this epis...
Doubling Down on Intimacy Within Marriage as Ministering to One Another
If you love biblical study from the perspective of God's unchanging character, specifically how we see that thread from OT to NT, you'll love this deep-dive on "minister" and "ministering". THEN we bring it all home in how this functions within...
Leadership Can Feel Like a Lonely Island
My dad told me for years that leadership can be really lonely when you're pouring into others. It reminds me of Moses leading the Israelites. You know me- always sharing the messy middle, showing my cards, and challenging you with a...
Intimacy + Desire Follow Through | Taste + See the Goodness PART 4!
If you're honest, what patterns have emerged around initiation and follow through? For Chelsey, there were decades of opening the door only to close it, creating a pattern of rejection and denial. This isn't God's design for intimacy!Let...
Intimacy + Desire Initiate with Confidence | Taste + See the Goodness PART 3!
How we approach intimacy MUST flow from the RIGHT order! This allows us to be filled from the vertical to then overflow to the horizontal. If we approach from the WRONG order, we get stuck in low level "fixes", box checking, and wrong heart pos...
Intimacy + Desire Self Protection | Taste + See the Goodness PART 2!
Fear, hurts, hang ups, and old patterns block us from the depth of intimacy in marriage God's way. Self protection is learned behavior and it hinders desire and expression of physical oneness. Listen as Chelsey dives into how we nav...
Intimacy + Desire God's Way | Taste + See the Goodness PART 1!
"Lord, wreck me over my husband's heart and desire for intimacy in marriage!" Chelsey prayed this prayer and God answered. Dive into intimacy, desire, and tasting God's goodness within marriage His way through physical intimacy!
Running a 5k + Your Marriage: the Parallels to Discipline + Intentional Effort
My daughter chose me to be her running buddy for her GOTR 5k coming up Mother's Day weekend. Yay! Except, even though I ran a marathon back in 2022, I haven't done much running at al since then... Panic!Just kidding, but this episode exp...
God's Power Transforms Your Marriage
Lest you think I'm one of those coaches, these are those client transformations, and this is one of those programs...NOPE.God is doing the work inside HLW! It's His power. His message. His design. And it's all happening inside HLW to the...
A Word of Caution About God Transformation + Daily Obedience
Everything must be by the Spirit, in submission to Christ's authority, otherwise, we will swing the opposite way walking the flesh never fully being free from the desires and passions of the flesh. Lean in and submit no longer to th...
For 16+ Months of HLW, God Keeps Speaking Without Fail!
Ride the wave of God's consistent, never-failing goodness to speak WEEK after WEEK without fail inside HLW! Come, taste and see the Lord's goodness!!
The Problem With "I Need" in Marriage
What do you actually need in marriage? This is the wrong question. Rather, the question is Who am I looking to fill me? Where am I satisfied? Do I actually need my husband or did God design something much richer within marriage WHEN we walk as ...
Old Patterns, Old Fear: Don't Go Back To Your Vomit!
When you're growing, the navigational systems that once protected you eventually don't fit the new direction. But the brain prefers the known discomfort rather than the unknown discomfort of what is not familiar to you....yet.In this epi...
BREAKING NEWS! Not Every Thought You Think Is Your Own
Right now, your strongest thoughts are driving the direction of your life. What you're looking for, you're finding. In this episode, Chelsey unpacks how all of your thoughts are impacting you and what to do about it.