High Level Wife Podcast with Chelsey Holm

If You're Not Growing, You're Already DEAD

Chelsey Holm Season 1 Episode 29

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Most people think they’re alive because they’re busy. But busyness is not the same as growth—and if you’re not growing in Christ, you’re already spiritually dead.

In this power-packed episode, Chelsey exposes the hard truth from Ephesians 4: growth isn’t optional—it’s the evidence of new life in Christ. She unpacks how our old patterns, perfectionism, vanity metrics, and desire to perform are actually signs of spiritual deadness masked in hustle. Through stories of gardening, parenting, and surrender, she shares how only the Holy Spirit can produce lasting transformation.

Inside this episode:

  • Why your striving may be a symptom of spiritual death
  • How growth in the Kingdom always begins with surrender
  • The gardening metaphor that reframes your walk with God
  • What keeps high-achieving women stuck in cycles of burnout
  • Why High Level Wife is not a Chelsey show—it’s God’s movement

This is your invitation to die to self, so you can truly come alive.

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I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God’s design in marriage, motherhood, and life."

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If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.

This mini course includes three short teachings, a guided exercise, and a prayer recorded over you to help you stop cycling and start responding differently—rooted in surrender, not striving.

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Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time—without behavior modification or pressure.

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2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)
10+ years coaching experience
NASM-certified in Personal Training and Nutrition
Mom of 5, Army wife 16 years

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