Stuck in Self-Help: Why You’re Not Moving Forward in Marriage

We’ve been told to “do the work,” “fix our mindset,” “heal our trauma,” and then we’ll be whole. But what if all that self-help work is actually keeping you stuck?

In this episode, I challenge the lie that your marriage, identity, or future depends on you fixing yourself first. I share how the self-help movement sneaks into Christian women’s lives, convincing us we’re just one more breakthrough away from freedom — while subtly keeping us from the true gospel of surrender.

If you’ve been spinning your wheels, exhausted by coaching, journaling, and striving to be a “better” version of yourself — this episode is your wake-up call. You were never meant to carry this burden. God’s way is surrender, rest, and trust — and from that place, obedience and transformation flow.

It’s time to break the loop of self-focus and step into the freedom that comes from letting Jesus be the Savior... not you.